I commented in the PR:
whilst adding options sounds appealing, every option comes with a long term maintenance cost (keeping it working, documenting etc.). This option would probably have to be per family as well.
Can we devise a heuristic that does the right thing? Is the label signifying the relationship between the two adults or the relationship between the adult(s) and children?
The table below is incomplete but hopefully gives an idea. gramps would use the first 4 columns to determine which label to display. Also need to consider translation - does this scheme support all other languages?
