Please provide a sample of how the data has been entered.
Such as a screen capture of an Event Editor with one of your Married name Events. A screen capture of the same Person Editor with the Name tab active.
Note that the thread Tree vivisection experiments with the Isotammi SuperTool has scripting examples of manipulating an existing Name entry. Including setting the Name type and the origin and validating those against the spouse and father.
And the wiki has links to a nice assortment of SuperTool scripts related to Names. (The section with @PLegoux scripts has some interesting scripts too, Including re-ordering of Alternative Names.)